Well, shoot.

Have you ever wanted to just tell someone to their face how rude, stupid, mean and inconsiderate they're being?

I have a friend who I'm constantly blowing hot and cold with. She can be nice and pleasant one minute, and then pull a 180. She'll just turn into a huge jerk. You don't even have to really do anything to piss her off. She'll just observe and then find something to get pissed off at you about.

It's kind of bothered me since I've known her, but lately it's getting out of control.

Perfect example. Her husband heard that I get up before Zach goes to work to make him a lunch. So he asked her why she never did that for him, and her answer was an insult to my boyfriend. She glanced at Zach, then back to her husband and said, "Well, you're a man, not a boy. Make your own lunch."

I took immediate offence to this. I make his lunch for him because I like to, and he takes it as a sweet gesture. I do it because I love him and we can't afford for him to buy it everyday. She is just flat out lazy and can't drag her butt out of bed for 10 minutes to do it.

It's really starting to annoy me. The snippy comments, the insults, asking me to come out to help her but never getting anything in return. It makes me not want to hang out with her anymore. Not like that would help or anything.

Sometimes I really wonder if they understand why nobody likes to go over to their house anymore. Does she realize it's her bitchy attitude? Does she really go out of her way to insult other people who she thinks are her friends?

I've tried to tell her to just relax or just drop a subject, but its like she likes being pissed off.

It's frustrating. I don't know what to do. I would love to just say it to her face that she's a pissy jerk, but I won't.

Ugh.